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   My sister cheated on her husband. He’d been abusing her (I confronted him after I found out years later)and she met her current husband at work. He’s a cool guy that treats her like a queen and I’m glad she’s with him. She did take time with him before she left her horses ass of a husband. She wanted to be sure she wasn’t going from one bad relationship to another.

   I can see it. I can understand it and in at least one case that I have a personal interest in…I can condone it.

   Life is never black and white. It is sometimes black and blue. Only the narrow minded speak in absolutes. There are always 3 sides to a story, yours, theirs, and the truth.

   I don’t like the fact that a service like this thrives as it’s a difficult thing to believe our culture has come to this point. In the end, it’s the individual who makes the choice to cheat or not based on their own circumstances. THEY, not some company, a friend of theirs who helps, etcare the ones who ultimately need to choose, take ownership of, and live with the aftermath of their decisions.

   The problem with this country is that NO ONE EVER does anything wrong or unethical. It’s always someone/something/the government/the media/too much sugar/stress/bad childhood ENOUGH!!! When we again begin to own our actions we will redevelop some character as a nation. Even poor character is better than NO character as a poor character can become good. No character can become nothing. Just as love and hate are very close, indifference is the furthest from both.

   I’m off my soap box but I don’t judge the company nor the people. Only God is qualified to do so as well as judge the ones who try to fill his shoes and judge others for themselves.

   Comment by george — 12/1/2006 @ 3:01 pm

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   Nor do I judge but like wise I never condone cheating because God deemed it wrong. He gave divorce for situation like your sisters. Two wrongs don’t make a right. Never have never will. This is what we, all the nation,I MYSELF at times am too easy to look over sin. Why? We shouldn’t set the ones who sin on purpose out of our lives. We should be willing to tell people( that means eachother) when we are sinning.Character? Man’s heart is wicked from his youth. We have no good character. God is good and He makes a renewed heart. Character is only good if you are willing to submitt yourself to God. That means strive evryday not to sin. Run the race don’t walk. God wants us going toward him with a full head of steam not casually walking and stopping to commit the occasional sin.
   This is not Judging it is from scripture.I hope that you realize that. The Bible said that this wrong. Not me. Sorry your sister had to go through that but wrong is wrong. That is why we have laws, that is why the New Testaments has commandments. This is why I say this. We cannot continue to turn our head at sin. Then again I don’t want to judge by telling people that sin is wrong. I would hate to be like John the Baptist and say repent of your sins and be baptized. Our Jesus when He said” Repent of your sins and turn to God for the Kingdom of God is near.”And by the way James 4:4 says that”You adulteresses!Don’t you realize that your friendship with the world makes you an enemy of God?” Sorry I I guess that I shouldn’t tell people about sin only the happy thoughts that one day no matter what we do we will all make it into heaven. Sorry I will never do that. The wages of sin is death. I will tell everyone that until the day I die.

   Comment by Travis — 12/2/2006 @ 8:11 pm

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