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5/12/2008

End Of A Era

Filed under: Faith, Family, Misc, Personal permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 3:23 pm

Well after almost (probably nine total months of breaks) 20 solid years a era ended yesterday (May 11th, Mothers Day, 2008), I am not longer teaching a weekly Sunday School, Discipleship Training, Youth Ministry, Small Group or Connection Time class. The last 20 years have been fun, and I can honestly say God taught me so much because I was leading the various classes, but my wife and I made this call for all the right reasons. The #1 reason being that God seems to be bringing some new ministry options / opportunities / means our way and #2 we need some freedom on weekends to pursue some things away from church as well.

That is not to say that we (meaning she and I) will not take a class on again or act as filling ins / temps when needed, but honestly as of now we/ I have no plans to take leadership of a weekly class anytime soon. God of course could change all of that tomorrow (and He has done that before when we stepped down from leadership), but we are trusting Him to work on that when He wants.

This decision took almost a year to make, and the base seeds of it were planted almost 2 years ago. It was one of those things where 10 to 15 small to medium, and a few large things, added up to showing us it was the right time to make the big move. Our students seemed to understand and were supportive overall, church leadership was supportive as well, but in the end we made the call and we were going to do regardless of the support because it was time.

For this blog / website this real world change should have no real impact as this operation / ministry has functioned separately from our weekly live teaching for over 4 years now. Hopefully it will actually help improve this blog / web site as we MAY (big MAY) have a bit more free time to devote to it now. I do desire to resume a more regular blogging pattern again soon, but that will be more dependent on my ongoing M -F work load. It is a very good possibility that there will be more and more posts from 6 to11 PM and less from 8 AM to 5 PM at least short term. Time will tell.

As always thanks for reading, thanks for your encouragement, thanks for visiting, thanks for commenting, and most of thanks for your prayers.

5/6/2008

Pray About It

Filed under: Current / General, Faith, Family, Personal permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 1:30 pm

Milton Stanley is pondering, thinking and teaching on the habits ofNehemiah, specifically his prayer life which was CONSTANT. Part of Milton’s pondering is brought on by a piece by Jeff Weddle ), which Milton followe with some personal audio about. Milton’s Post / Audio Here. Give both posts a read and Milton’s audio a listen.

4/30/2008

Be Still

Filed under: Faith, Family, Personal permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 10:05 pm

Milton Stanley of Transforming Sermons has a great post / link up to a piece at Jesus the Radical Pastor Post here that is a great reminder that we all need to take some BE time with GOD.

4/2/2008

Smile It Is Wednesday

Filed under: Current / General, Family, Personal permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 11:53 am

Though it is a few days late John T Brown had a excellent post up Friday that should bring a smile to everyone’s face. Full Post Here

3/12/2008

Ah sweet lemonade

Filed under: Current / General, Family, News, Politics permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 8:50 am

Lemual Calhoun thinks we will likely see some from of socialized medicine within the lifetime of most people living today. I agree with that. LC does not want that to happen. I agree with that as well as I think we have a medical system that needs fixing but I don’t think the government is the right one to do it. Moving on, Lemuel is attempting to make some lemonade from this sour situation and has a nice post up the “good” he has potentially found in this. I personally am not sure the “good” is worth the “bad” that will happen for the “good” to come out of it, but hey it is worth some thought though. Regardless, this post may bring a laugh, it may bring a tear, but either way it is a good post.

LC also had some GREAT music up last night.

Hit the Road Jack (or Jill).

Filed under: Current / General, Family, Local, News, Personal, Politics permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 7:30 am

First saw this last night on line and heard about it again this AM on local radio. The Center for Union Facts - a anti union think tank - is asking students, parents and teachers nationwide to nominate the WORST teachers in the US. The worst 10 will be offered $10,000 to QUIT teaching and allow the website to write about them. Full details here

I am from a family of teachers, both my parents are retired from public education facilities, and numerous of my family members have been or still are involved in the education profession. Even members of my spouses family are and have been involved in working in public education. I believe there are few jobs / professions that are more important and impactful then teaching / education. I personally think that many (not all but many) times parents / students are swayed more by personal bias then actual facts when it comes to what then consider a good or bad teacher. A stern teacher that demands order and pushes lazy kids to learn is rarely liked, but they are highly effective and are worthy of praise.

With the above facts understood I say the following - there are few things worse then bad teachers and nothing worse then bad teachers being protected by their teachers unions. There are a lot of factors that go into making bad teachers - lack of concern / passion to begin with, more administration less education, the idea that teachers are baby sitters, uninvolved and unconcerned parents, inability to enforce rules / order, forced / mandatory curriculum that does not improve actual education, teaching to the test, and numerous other things -, but whatever the cause they need to go. If this “project” ,which I think it more about starting a national debate then about actually getting rid of the 10 worst teachers, works to weed out the chaff then I am all for it.

I must also add that I don’t like the core idea of shaming teachers to improve is flawed, but I do think something has to be done to get public education in America turned around. It is not the same as it was even 20 years ago, and it was already slipping then.

3/11/2008

A day late, but still timely

Filed under: Faith, Family, History, Personal permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 8:28 am

John T Brown from Scotwise served up a great heart starter yesterday about how God is true to His promises, how He has a plan for us all to serve Him, and how He empowers His people to succeed in what He calls them too. Post Here

3/6/2008

Endorsements

Filed under: Current / General, Faith, Family, Local, News, Personal, Politics permalinktrackback — Team Swap @ 12:00 pm

This post comes from a topic that was on a local radio show this AM. The shows host - Hallerin Hilton Hill - contended that endorsements don’t matter any more and that people vote their own pocketbook, etc. Hal also contended that the views / endorsement of family and friends have far more impact on voters then endorsements.

At the end of the day I think Hal’s main point - people vote for their own pocketbook in the end - is true. People looking for lower taxes find candidates that want lower taxes. People looking for more social aid and government services find those candidates and vote that way.

In reinforcing the point about friends and family being important in the candidate selection process, one must also remember that we tend to be around people that share our values and views. SO, when our family and friends say they support candidate x or y then it is likely we share a similar set of values and goals, so we are likely to desire a similar candidate. If the overall views of our family and friends are similar to ours then it is pretty obvious that their views on a political candidate will likely way on our decision making process.

The previous point, about people associating with those similar to themselves, is actually not true for me and my wife though. We are the lone conservatives in both our families and we are the only couple actively involved in church in either family at the moment. These two differences mean that we typically disagree with the candidates that our families support. This fact even cares over to our friends. We do have conservative friends, but most of our friends (i.e. non family members we see regularly) are fairly liberal, so we tend to disagree with the candidates that our family and many of our friends support. The fact that we don’t “run with” a lot of people like us means that we tend to reach our political views via personal research and endeavors. Endorsements tend to be just one small part of our decision making process.

That leads me to my key point about endorsements, they are more guide then guidance for the politically engaged.

As I have already stated, I agree with Hal on his second point - that the views of family and friends mean more then the endorsement of the paper or some columnist even if that is not true for me personally - but I think he missed the real point of endorsements. Endorsements are really designed to allow people a simple means of measuring their views with others that they do not know personally but respect or with groups / individuals they personally respect or support.

Let me explain a bit. Say for instance you are a Al Gore fan or a Trent Lott fan, that means that you respect their views / opinions. If you respect Mr. Gore or Mr. Lott and they openly support candidate X (or oppose candidate Y),. You personally may be actively following the race, but unsure about the candidates. The endorsement of a person you respect may guide you to that candidate. You have a core set of values, you share those with Mr Gore or Mr Lott, so their view is sufficient to guide your decision in a race you are aware of, but not passionate about.

Another situation where a endorsement may act as a guide is if you have narrowed it down to two or three candidates and the candidate that Mr Gore or Mr Lott endorses is one of those few. In that case, the endorsement reinforces 1) your respect for them and 2) the similarities in the views you share with them. That reinforcement may cause you to shrink your small group selection to one candidate which you will support.

If you are a member of a union or a pac the same can be true. You look at all the candidates and you narrow it down to a few. Then a group that you support or align with typically picks a candidate then you follow their lead.

Basically, I think endorsements are to politics what readers digest is to books. They let you quickly get the gist of the candidate and their views based on your past experience and view of the individual or the group offering the endorsement. They may not make the decision for you, but they help you narrow the pack.

The beliefs that I shared above are based on people actively following races and candidates. Unfortunately as fewer and fewer people actively follow races or candidates, I think endorsements are quickly becoming the voting guides for the lazy. No reason to do the work and find out for yourself, just listen to person A or organization B and vote as they lead you to achieve the common goals you share. When this happens it is little more then voting by proxy. In my view though the good news about voters like this is that they tend to be lazy and they may or may not show up at the polls as in the end they don’t care. Hal’s overall point though - people vote their pocketbooks - will at times make the lazy voter come out, but many even that is not sufficient. They want government on autopilot and voting is a annoyance not a privilege or right others have died to both grant and defend.